Feel excluded from his life with family.

Question:

GOOD MORNING URSULA

I look forward to reading your blog everyday, Gosh you are so right on track.

I am divorced with a son, and I know this wonderful guy , in every sense of the word, going on 5 years this year October. I adore and love him very much.

The only problem is that he does not include me in his life with his family, has not taken me to meet his family, however i have been to his house and met them and I would like to know if there is any hope for commitment with him or should I move on. Thank you

Answer:

Thank you for the compliment. The cards say that you must be patient. He does love you, but security is very important to this man. He needs to know for certain that he will be able to provide. He is also undecided about staying in South Africa and might be weighing his options.  He is very stubborn so it is not a good idea to push this guy into anything. You are born in the year of the Pig and even if he does want to marry this year, it is the year of the Snake, which is your opposition year, so it’s not a good idea. Things happen for a reason.  Hang in there. Go with the flow and don’t stir up any waves. If you can wait this out, you will have a happy relationship with him in the future. If you try and push to hard, you might push him away.