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Is misery my destiny?

Question:

I am facing a dilemma that I feel has gone on for too long now, I am not working, I have the worlds debts on my hands I am lonely, overweight and depressed. Thing is this has been going on for a few years now, I always see everyone go out and enjoy their lives, all of my friends have their own cars and are either engaged to get married or already are, I can't seem to be going anywhere in life, I never have money, men use me and with all that I've seem to have lost my faith along the way, is this really how I'm gonna live forever, is this my destiny or is it just a cloud that will definitely go away sometime, please help I don't know where else to turn to. Thank you

Answer:

The cards show me that you have a lot of emotional issues that you need to deal with – Unfortunately thinking that things are going wrong for you is not the right approach. The cards show that there is only one person that has the power to fix things in your life…and that person is you.  You will get to a point where you will realise this and you will take action. You will loose the weight too once you make this decision. The dark cloud hanging over you is your own way of thinking – and you can change this by making the decision to change it.  Looking at your numerology – within the next year is a very good time to start fresh. The forces will be with you and every effort that you put into anything will be rewarded. Once you see that things are going better, please write to me again and I can check to see how things will go. Before anything can change – you have to make the decision to change them. Right now, the cards just show me how you desperately want to make things better – take the first step, then more will show. You will be very happy you did it. No more waiting.

Where is my relationship going?

Question:

I was divorced from my husband in 2011. I dated a bit and tried to meet new people and have met someone very special last year and we are now officially dating. He treats me like a queen and have been hinting at moving in with me and my kids by April. He also has children of his own but they are in Ireland.

The problem is he has a previous girlfriend still in Ireland too that he seems to still love very much seeing as he moved here because of his father not being able to handle the business on his own anymore and he came to work with his father now. She couldn’t come with him but he does not seem over her. I just want to know where my relationship is heading with him, will it be long term (marriage) and if we will be happy together. I’m just very scared of getting hurt again.

Answer:

Don’t focus on the previous girlfriend, and especially, don’t talk to him about her.  In the reading – she is lying in the past. Let it stay that way. Once you develop trust in him, there can be a lot of happiness between the two of you. He seems to get along well with your children as well. This can most definitely work out – very positively, and yes, it can result in a marriage.What the cards warn though, is that you must not keep thinking that he still has “those” sort of feelings for her. First of all it can create conflict and second, he may think there is no point in trying to prove how much he cares for you.  Drop the subject and there WILL me a marriage

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