Question -

I found your website; I need a desperate answer on a love life question,

My ex-fiancé and I broke up after a long period for another women, he returned a year later said he made mistake, we have seen each other romantically, but he recently said he needs to sort his life out first, is this a cat and mouse game.

I KNOW WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH. WILL WE REUNITE, BE HAPPY, HAVE BABIES?

Thank you for taking the time to answer me back I truly appreciate your kindness. Thank you once again

Answer -

Initially this will look like it is a game of cat and mouse. Be careful not to lay down ultimatums as you could be causing the problem yourself. You seem to be the one getting impatient and wanting things to happen NOW. You have reason to feel this way as it seems you are the one giving of your time and of yourself, often bending to please him, and getting nothing in return. 

If you are patient enough, you will land up with him, although I do see that you will meet someone new. Someone that won't require as much effort, who will appreciate you for all you do.  Your guy might wake up when it is too late.

Sorry to everyone else who wrote last week, but this was the first one to come in and I only answer one question per week.